Your First Date Checklist

Stacy KarynGeneral Dating Advice2 Comments

Think you are ready for that first date of yours?

After posting a winning profile, messaging a handful of people, and finally lining up your first date, you may be breathing a sigh of relief. But the reality is that the hard part is just getting started! Luckily, you can just whiz through the first date checklist below and create a winning first impression.    

Your First Date Checklist:
1. Re-read their profile.

Re-reading the online dating profile is enough to provide amazing insight into the person you are meeting. And insight means… conversation starters! Make some mental notes as to what was mentioned in the profile, and bring these things up during the date. However, try to avoid saying something like, “So, you wrote in your profile that you love dogs…”. This is just awkward. Don’t mention online dating during an actual date. Instead, make a conversation out of it, like, “So, would you consider yourself to be a dog person or a cat person?”.

2. Re-read your messages.

Sometimes it’s good to give yourself a quick refresher on the things you have already talked about via text. By doing this, you can easily prevent boredom and repetitiveness during the date.

3. Do something active that day.

This doesn’t have to be anything huge, but make sure not to spend the whole day sitting at your desk before showing up to the date. Find some time during the day to lift some weights, do some yoga, or even go on a nice walk through a park. This will prevent you from being (or appearing to be) groggy later on.

4. Take a shower.

This is probably the most important item on the list. Make sure you are as fresh as it gets before walking out that door! Do NOT do a workout, change your clothes, and think you are fresh enough for a date. Hop in the shower first! Did you have a strenuous day at work? Shower!

5. Double check everything.

Double check your meeting time, location, and how long it will actually take you to get to your meeting point. Tardiness could potentially lead to your date feeling awkward and alone. And if they are even awkward and alone for a few minutes, it could be enough to mess up their first impression of you.

6. Read the news.

Take 10-15 minutes that day to catch up on some current events. Make sure to read the big stories, but also a couple of random and interesting smaller stories. This will be enough material to enable you to break free from any awkward silence that may occur later on.

7. Charge your phone.

Make sure your phone is charged before heading out. This will allow you to be able to communicate with your date before and after meeting. And while we’re on the topic, put your phone away (and keep it away) as soon as the date begins.

8. Have a snack.

Do not show up to the date starving! This will break up your mental energy and flow. Eat something small beforehand, even if you are meeting for dinner.

9. Do some research.

Pull up your bar or restaurant’s menu online beforehand. Figure out your top 1-2 choices of what you plan on ordering. That way, you can just appear to be looking at the menu while your date is figuring out what to order. This will give your nerves a bit of a break. Then, as you see that your date is about ready to order, you can slowly put down your menu as well.

10. Take out cash.

There is nothing more embarrassing than being financially ill-prepared on a date. Take out cash so that you don’t have to “borrow” money from your date, or run to the nearest ATM in the case the bar doesn’t accept credit cards.

So, I know this first date checklist may seem like a lot to remember. However, if you just make a habit of working your way through this list every time you have a date, I can guarantee that you will significantly increase your chance of having a great time. You may even start to find your first dates to be something you’re looking forward to, rather than something you’re dreading. And, if your first date turns out to be a dud (even after following the first date checklist), there’s always this handy blog post on how to make the best of that situation as well. 😉

Happy dating!

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2 Comments on “Your First Date Checklist”

  1. Thanks for checking out my blog! Your dating online concept is intriguing. Seems like it is definitely something many will find helpful. Both my best friend and I met our spouses online. This year marks our 8th anniversaries. While many horror stories exist, we are proof it can be a great way to meet your future spouse. Your concept seems like it would help people take the danger out of the process. I wish you well.

    1. Wow! Thanks for sharing your happy stories. And congratulations to you and your bestie! I love reading things like this. 🙂

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