34 “Out of the Box” First Date Ideas

Stacy KarynFirst Date, General Dating Advice2 Comments

Out of First Date Ideas? 

I get it. You take all of your dates to the same bar, night after night. I’ve heard this story millions of times. Person A is tired of putting effort into dating. As a result, he always asks Person B to meet up at his local bar. It’s safe. It’s easy. He knows where to sit/what to order. But the problem is that, by doing this, you’re kind of admitting defeat right off the bat.   

Your next date is going to be completely different from your last date, who was way different from the date before her. So why should they all get the same treatment? Also, why would you choose to repeat the same dysfunctional experience over and over again?

So, the better solution to this is to customize your first date idea to the person  you are chatting with. For today, I’ve come up with 34 different date ideas for you to play around with. However, the ideas below can also just be used for inspiration. First of all, try really listening to your potential date/reading through their entire profile. Then, decide on an idea that they would most likely be crazy excited about!

Here are 34 first date ideas to get you started:
  1. Go to an arcade (that inner competitive spirit can definitely spark a connection).
  2. Attend a poetry slam.
  3. Try your hand at geocaching.
  4. Challenge each other to a game of pool.
  5. Go out for tapas (not as serious as dinner, but a little more intimate than drinks).
  6. Check out a local open mic event.
  7. Find a nearby board game cafe. Maybe it could be fun to play games with strangers too.
  8. Attend a Meetup event.
  9. Go to a live sporting event.
  10. Treat each other to ice cream.
  11. Try out a highly-rated food truck.
  12. Have a language exchange between the two of you.
  13. Suggest a 15 minute date (If they are a bit timid about meeting, suggest meeting up for 15 minutes. Grab a to-go coffee, say hi, and part ways. Don’t allow yourselves any longer than that.).
  14. Attend a cooking class.
  15. Play chess in the park.
  16. Take your dogs to the dog park.
  17. Go running together (works best if you’re both runners).
  18. Play around at the batting cages.
  19. Go wine tasting.
  20. Make a picnic/enjoy a movie in the park.
  21. Stroll through a local farmers market.
  22. Brunch!
  23. Try the 36 questions experiment.
  24. Laugh your asses off at an improv show.
  25. Take a tour of a local brewery.
  26. Paint your own ceramics.
  27. Volunteer.
  28. Choose a bar with active games (like darts and skee-ball).
  29. Team up and win a pub quiz.
  30. Sing your heart out at a piano bar.
  31. Visit a tourist attraction that you’ve never been to.
  32. Attend a TED or a TEDx event.
  33. Have a Skype call.
  34. Finally, go out for live music. This also works well for awkward silence prevention. 
So there you have it!

34 super fun first date ideas to inspire some outside-of-the-box thinking for your next meeting. In conclusion, just remember to have fun with it and keep things personal. Also, don’t keep repeating the same dates that aren’t working for you. Most of all, make sure to play around and enjoy the ride.

And lastly, if the date isn’t great. No worries! I have some ideas for that scenario as well. 😉

Until next time!

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2 Comments on “34 “Out of the Box” First Date Ideas”

  1. I remember a really unique date I went on in high school – we camped out in my parent’s back yard and watched a movie on my laptop. It was bizarre, but really unique and special (Borat will always have a special place in my heart, haha).

    I really like the idea of creating your own secret language or learning an existing one together. You’d have to be a very special couple to do that, but it sounds like a fun challenge depending on interests. Thanks for the suggestions!

    1. Haha, love it! These are the types of dates you will remember for a very long time, if not forever! While on the contrary, it’s easy to forget the specifics of “bar date #25”. Thanks for sharing!

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